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I know the dilemma of not knowing how to tap into your feminine energy or where to even begin to increase your feminine energy.

It can be tough to feel connected to our feminine energy in a world that values masculinity and sees vulnerability as weakness, but trust me, embracing your inner goddess is the ultimate way to create your dream life.

Learning to increase your feminine energy can bring you to a whole new level of confidence and empowerment. Embracing your feminine energy not only allows you to feel more confident as a woman, it also attracts positive vibes and opportunities into your life.

So, how can you do it? This post will cover the 15 ways you can tap into your feminine energy. By following this list, you will radiate feminine energy, attract abundance, and embrace your true self. Let’s step into our power, ladies!

How Do You Activate Feminine Energy?

To activate your feminine energy you need to know what feminine energy is, so that you can recognise the signs in yourself – If you are woman who has high feminine energy or a woman with too much masculine energy.

Feminine energy is all about tapping into the softer, more nurturing side of ourselves. It’s about embracing traits that are traditionally associated with women, such as nurturing, empathy, intuition, vulnerability, and compassion.

These feminine energy traits are what manifests magic in a woman’s life. Yes, I know that may sound a bit woo-woo to some, but bear with me. We all have it in us – that soft yet attractive allure that can makes us natural receivers in an abundant universe, if harnessed correctly.

Think about it – your intuition, creativity, empathy, your ability to pull and attract your desires with your magnetic force, be in a state of flow and to be receptive to the world around you– are all classic signs of high feminine energy that have been undervalued for too long.

7 ways to increase your feminine energy right now

  • Learn to trust your intuition
  • Prioritize self-care and self-love 
  • Embrace your feminine body
  • Practice vulnerability and authenticity
  • Cultivate gratitude and appreciation for life
  • Connect with mother nature 
  • Take the time out to rest

Related: How to Unblock Wounded Feminine Energy

Related: Are You A Woman With Too Much Masculine Energy?

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How Do I Tap Into My Divine Feminine Energy?

Here are 15 tips on how to tap into your feminine energy as a woman.

1. Dance

From the cha-cha to the tango, every dance style has its own unique flair, and it’s up to you to find the one that speaks to your soul.

Whether you’re a pro or you have two left feet, there’s no denying that dance is carthartic and can be good for releasing stress and anxiety. Some dance practises have a core ingredient for nervous system regulation: co-regulation and social engagement since dance is typically done in community with others.
If you want to heal your nervous system, try taking some dancing classes. You will get to tap into your feminine energy and to the reap the psychological benefits of dancing as well.

2. Balance your chakras

Since trauma is stored in the body, experiencing trauma can make you feel unsafe your body. This can impact other areas of your life, like your creativity and expression.

This is how a woman represses femininity because she becomes stuck in survival mode as she prides herself in being strong and super resilient for herself and others.

This is why it is so important to balance your chakras with yoga so that you can feel safe in your body. There are some yoga poses you can find online for healing trauma.

Chakras are energy centers in the body and balancing them will be key to unblocking your feminine energy.

3. Practise feeling safe in your body

A huge part of tapping into your feminine energy is about honouring and having a deep connection to your body.

Without this sense of connection and safety in your body, you may also feel a disconnect from your intuition.

Studies show that when you meditate you are actually shutting down the sympathetic nervous system (the masculine), which activates the flight & fight response, and turning on the parasympathetic (the feminine) nervous system which is responsible for rest.

Thats why it’s great for people who have anxiety, panic attacks, explosive anger and major meltdowns.

Maintaining a consistent meditation practice will overtime reduce pain, depression, stress and anxiety.

4. Be open to receiving

As a feminine woman, it’s important to let down your guard and welcome abundance into your life.

Don’t be afraid to accept compliments, gifts, or help from others, this is how to tap into your feminine energy in your relationships whether platonic or romantic.

You deserve to be spoilt and pampered and taken care of just like the queen you are. So let go of any old beliefs that being strong and independent means you have to do it all yourself.

Embracing your feminine energy means being open to receiving the best things that life has to offer.

Trust me, the universe is just waiting to shower you with blessings.

5. Self care rituals

Self care rituals do not have to be limited to the fancy spa dates, slathering on fancy creams, grooming, luxury perfume collection or mani and pedis.

You can radiate feminine energy by practising self care in other areas of life such as mental, emotional, physical, financial, social, environmental – this makes you a well balanced and attractive woman.

And let me tell you, when you’re feeling good and taking care of yourself, men, women, babies will be drawn to you like cat to litter.

Related: Self care Sunday Ideas To Reset The Mind Body And Soul

6. Feel your feels

Let’s face it, feeling our uncomfortable feelings isn’t exactly high on our to-do list. It’s like that awkward conversation you’ve been avoiding with your aunt about your love life.

But here’s the thing, we can’t avoid them forever. So why not tackle those feelings head-on? You can even grab a journal and write them down. It’s like having a therapy session, without the hefty price tag.

Need some prompts to get started? How about 65 Self Love Journal Prompts That Will Raise Your Self Worth or 50 Life-Changing Journal Prompts For Healing. You’ll feel better after facing those uncomfortable feelings, cry if you need to.

Plus, think of it as a chance to also connect with your inner child and give her the attention she deserves.

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7. Show off your feminine curves

Gone are the days of hiding our curves behind shapeless sacks or oversized t-shirts. It’s time to embrace your feminine form and show off those luscious curves!

It’s no secret that society has a particular standard for what constitutes an attractive female body, but what if you don’t fit the mold?

Whether you’re blessed with a bootylicious backside or a set of voluptuous hips, learn to appreciate your body and all that it does for you. Wear clothes that are perfect for your body type. Dress to accentuate your best features and use clothing to highlight the parts of your body that you like.

8. Ask for help

Asking for help is not a sign of weakness, but rather a sign of strength. It shows that you’re willing to put your ego aside and admit when you need assistance.

And let’s be real, we all need a helping hand from time to time. Whether it’s hiring someone, or asking the people closest to you, It gives other people, especially your loved ones a chance to feel useful and needed. You don’t always have to be the strong independent woman.

Asking for help comes in handy if you want to know how to tap into your feminine energy in your romantic relationships. Plus, what man doesn’t love a good hero moment?

9. Have an attitude of gratitude

Want to increase your feminine energy fast? You don’t need to splurge on a new designer shoes or buy a book on how to tap into your feminine energy. Nope, all you need is an attitude of gratitude.

Don’t believe me? Simply put, gratitude is like a magnet for positivity. It is one of the quickest ways to neutralise negative vibes and shifts your focus to the good things in life

Gratitude also raises your vibration, allowing you to be in a receiving mode, which opens up for channels for to attract more your blessings into your life.

Related: Gratitude List: 260+ Things To Be Grateful For

10. Give yourself the permission to rest

It’s time to give yourself the permission to rest. Don’t let the pressure of being a woman in this hustle culture make you feel like you always have to be on the go. If you are always feeling guilty when you relax, it might be worth doing some inner shadow work on your self worth.

Your worth does not come from overworking and being self sacrificial. Your worth comes from just being.

So, take a break, kick your feet up, and let yourself recharge. Your mental health and overall well-being deserve it. Remember, self-care is not selfish, it’s necessary to balance your yin and yang.

Dear Woman,

Your worth does not come from overworking and being self-sacrificial. Your worth comes from just being.

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11. Use your voice

Are you guilty of censoring your personality just because you want to please others?

It’s time to start being unapologetic about who you are and start using your voice to express your truth.

It’s boring to settle for a watered-down version of yourself. After all, life is too short to be anyone else but yourself.

So, start living life for yourself and don’t worry if some folks can’t handle the real you – that’s their problem, not yours. The world deserves to see and hear you in all of your unique and wonderful glory!

12. Get Creative

Feminine energy is creative energy and getting creative is one of the best ways to tap into your divine feminine energy.

When it comes to getting creative, the possibilities are endless. You could pick up a creative feminine hobby like painting, write a poem, or even invent something new entirely – the world is truly your oyster.

Besides designing and writing, I like to get creative with my cooking by experimenting with unique flavour combinations and adding my own spin to classic recipes.

Who knows, you might even discover your new hidden talent. So, get those creative juices flowing and see where they take you. Don’t let adulthood close the door on your creative spirit, connect with inner child within you that is an artist.

13. Smile more

Life can be tough at times but a simple smile can make a world of difference.

Not only can smiling trick your brain into happiness, it can also put a smile on someone else’s face – and who doesn’t love spreading joy?

So whether you’re feeling down or just passing by someone on the street, don’t be afraid to flash those pearly whites. Who knows, maybe it’ll even make your crush weak in the knees or you might meet someone new.

Smile more – it’s contagious and it makes you more approachable!

14. Surround yourself with other feminine women

Ladies, let’s face it – as you embark on your femininity journey, you will lose friends along as you level up.

Life is too short to surround ourselves with anything less than fabulous, feminine women who are on the same page with you. They want to see you win and flourish, while also allowing you the space to grow.

Whether we’re talking about fashion, ideas, life goals, or our latest obsession, it’s important to have a squad that just gets it.

So, let’s ditch the catty, competitive drama queens and the energy vampires and embrace the power of having likeminded supportive women in your life. Trust me, your soul will thank you for it.

15. See yourself as the prize

Shift your mentality and see yourself as the prize! Change your self concept and start assuming you already have the feminine energy traits that is aligned with the woman that you aspire to become.

It’s time to stop settling for less and start expecting the best. Confidence is key ladies, so focus on your own self-worth and remember that you bring something special to any situation.

This is how to tap into your feminine energy when dating, meeting someone new, or interviewing for your dream job, approach it with the knowledge that you are a catch.

So go ahead and flaunt your strengths, lead with your feminine energy, and never settle for anyone who doesn’t see you as the prize that you are!

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How to tap into your feminine energy as a woman

So, what’s the key to radiating feminine energy? It starts with getting in tune with your body, mind, and spirit.

Embracing your feminine energy is all about cultivating a deep connection with yourself and the world around you.

Practice self-care rituals like taking a bubble bath, journaling your thoughts and emotions, or meditating to connect with your inner child. Dress in clothes that make you feel as beautiful and confident as you are.

Stay positive, practice gratitude, and surround yourself with people who lift you up. Remember, being feminine is not about conforming to societal norms, it’s all about embracing your unique beauty and strengths. So embrace your inner goddess, sis!

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  1. Eva says:

    Thank you so much for the useful tips ?

  2. Joanna says:

    Thank you this was helpful and very detailed 💙

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